Practices that Help Us, # 2 – Anchoring

For we walk by faith, not by sight.

1 Corinthians 5:7

Anchoring our Faith in God

We know we’re in trouble. The boat is drifting, but we don’t want it to get away from us. We throw the anchor over the side so the drifting is kept to a minimum. Later, we pull the anchor to make our way to the dock. With some effort, we manage to get the boat to the pier. We secure the boat to the pier in two places, bow and stern. Once the boat is secured, we can leave it for a moment. We are trusting the ‘anchor’ to do its job.

I remember when our ski boat ran out of gas in one of the fingers of Lake Oroville (when the lake was full). My dad grabbed the oar and paddled the boat long way in. It was slow going, but we made it back just before twilight.

Anchoring a boat, or any object, for that matter, becomes necessary if we want the object to remain in a designated spot. Does it matter what the anchor looks like? Not especially. What does matter is its functionality. The anchor must be heavy. It must be strong. It must be designed to do the job. An anchor, anchors. It holds the object secure even when rough seas toss it about. Like with a paperweight, the papers can’t float around or be misplaced when they’re adequately secured.

Passages of Scripture are like an anchor to keep us secure during troubled times. I can remember the first time Scripture upheld me while in a dark season in my life. I was a freshman in college. I’d been dating my best friend’s brother, someone considered good looking, cool, and a ‘catch.’ I couldn’t believe that he liked me, a country gal, or country bumpkin, as the case may be. However, the relationship didn’t last long before he dumped me. But it hurt a lot, anyway. I’d really and intensely fallen for him. I had trouble getting over him. I still longed to be with him. I literally felt sick.

During the aftermath and for a few months thereafter, Psalm 27 ministered to me and sustained me. I read it, and read it, and read it. “The LORD is my light and my salvation– whom shall I fear? The LORD is the stronghold of my life– of whom shall I be afraid?” (Psalm 27:1). This chapter became real to me. I needed its words “The LORD is the stronghold of my life.” I anchored my thoughts in Psalm 27. Soon the words became a strength in me.

Another Example of ‘anchoring’

Back in 2008, my sister’s family went through a serious rough patch. Worry was my sister’s constant nemesis, though she kept it to herself and didn’t share how intense and precarious their situation had become. Their family business was affected. Then it got worse. The struggle increased. Someone encouraged my sister to read Psalm 91, and she did.

Every day my sister anchored herself in the Word. This verse became her north star, “Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty” (Psalm 91:1). Whenever she felt the worries piling up, this verse would come to mind. This chapter kept her thoughts centered throughout the years’ long ordeal. Looking back on those years, she can say, a battle was won. God was victor.

Through His words, God was saying to her that their family could trust Him to take care of them. She anchored herself in Psalm 91, reading it daily. It settled her when the fears were overpowering, when worries of what could happen overwhelmed her and threatened to get the better of her. She learned to trust in God when it all seemed utterly impossible. Her faith grew. She knew God would not abandon them. Many times He supplied their needs when they couldn’t see one step in front of them. The months of doing without and fearing the worst took a visible toll on them.

I could insert long paragraphs about the choices they made as their reality unfolded, but that’s their story to tell. Suffice it to say, God stripped way all that they had depended on and became their enough. Make no mistake, it was hard going, though they were uncomplaining. They came out of it in a different place spiritually than when they initially entered the crisis. Their faith had grown deeper. God had proved true to His Word. Now my sister and her husband irrefutably know that their Redeemer lives.

Our faith becomes sight as we anchor ourselves in the truths of God and His Word. Has this happened to you? Have you been so distressed that the thing seems impossible? Have you cried, “Lord, help me” when it all was too much? Did Christ help you? Did Christ come in and make a way through the desert when you utterly could not see the way? Was He your enough? It is in times like these that we hold on to faith and dive deep, deeper than we thought possible. We hold on for dear life to what is secure, to the Who of our Security, the Rock on which we stand.

The old hymn says it well.

We have an anchor that keeps the soul
steadfast and sure while the billows roll;
fastened to the Rock which cannot move,
grounded firm and deep in the Savior’s love!

Priscilla J. Owens

Sustainability

God is good to us. He knows what we need before we need it. I love His incredible ‘present’ Presence. We go through seasons of ‘want’ that teach us about sustainability in our faith. Suffering has a purpose that we can only fully realize by going through it. It is then that we grow deeper in faith and spiritual experience.

It is then that we can put on the garment of faith that’s spun during the dark nights of limited light, when we faithfully and fearfully cling to the promises that are locked eternally in Scripture. For years, I clung to these promises from God. “I will never leave you nor forsake you” (Hebrews 13:5), “But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:19), and “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” (2 Corinthians 12:9). It was hard for me as I learned to trust, really TRUST and BELIEVE in God, the Forever Shepherd Who cares for His sweet ones, His beloved sheep. When I was vulnerable, weak, and traumatized, God knew it. God gently led me to where I was ready to receive my healing, freeing, and wholeness.

Anchoring your faith looks like that. It holds you secure as you go through the tumultuous storm. You trust in the unseen. Your faith becomes sight as you learn to trust in God and His faithfulness to you. Anchor yourself in His Word. It will hold you up, give you confidence and peace while you trudge this earthly veil of tears.


Heartwarming Story

“Yesterday it was the sweetest. We setup our Christmas tree in the evening and Braxton and Brailyn (our foster children, ages 4 and 6) were so enthralled. These two seem to have such minimal typical life experiences. It was just magical watching their eyes light up. Braxton was just staring at the tree once it was done and said, “the Christmas tree is very beautibul. It’s very beautibul.”

-Post on Facebook, by my daughter, 11-28-21

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God bless you on your spiritual journey.

What is a Woman? Reflections on the late Monarch

We as women can be both strong and sweet, both tough and tender. Our femininity (gasp) depends on a confluence of these two attributes. The strong but gracious woman is stunning. She is a force to reckon with when her ire is up, smooth and strong like steel, she modulates her delivery so it won’t get her in trouble.

I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: every where and in all things am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.

Philppians 4:12-13

That woman is beautiful for she knows the true nature of beauty.

She is noticed and appreciated. Her words are calculated, giving strength to the listener. She minds the way of cause and effect. She knows for every cause there will be an effect. She is like a hand opening up and out rather than closing in and shutting tight. She gives in the same manner that she receives. Her spirit soars; it knows no limits.

This woman blesses but doesn’t curse; affirms but doesn’t speak ill of others. A true well-adjusted woman, she understands herself and her purpose. She accomplishes much. Her ways are honorable. Her beauty and good works are unsurpassed in the marketplace.

She is industrious and soft.

This is my take on what a woman aka a lady is and always will be. Does she sound like the Proverbs 31 woman? This how I see it and how I try to be. I have noticed a commonality amongst women who are whole on the inside and out. A woman doesn’t have to possess natural beauty to be beautiful, but she must have genuine ‘gentle’ qualities to be genteel, rich qualities that spring from the heart.

Her conduct is above reproach.

You can’t fake it till you make it. These qualities come through being nurtured, cultured, developed, and embraced until they become as natural as the day is long. They present themselves with a self-effacing modesty factor that is her crowning feature as in a rare jewel, a brilliant diamond. In this way, humility has become her strength.

The first thing you notice about her is her strength, wit, and good humor. Her grace is notable.

I have found it interesting on the passing of the late monarch Queen Elizabeth II at age 96, that many of these same qualities were in her. As I listened to the tributes flow in on YouTube, it was obvious that she was universally regarded with respect, admiration, and appreciation. I think that is why her long reign was gracious, successful, and enduring. She had the weight of England and the British Commonwealth on her shoulders. Yet, she didn’t falter. Her missteps were few.

The quality that guided her was a sense of duty, mixed with personal integrity. She was influenced by Christian principles, which were a foundation guiding her throughout her 70 year reign. Her faith stood out. Many have remarked about it on her passing. I didn’t know this about her. I was truly touched by Britain’s former prime minister Boris Johnson’s tribute to Her Majesty, Her Royal Highness Queen Elizabeth II. I saw the queen’s remarkableness through his eyes. He said it well.


Video 1 – Boris Johnson gives Inspiring Tribute to the late Queen Elizabeth II

I encourage you to watch this video clear to the end. His words reflect his admiration for the queen.

Video 2 – The Queen Encourages her country’s citizens during the Covid-19 pandemic in 2021

She speaks with dignity and caring, the qualities of which I speak were there, evident in this speech.

Video 3 – On her 21st birthday, while still a princess, her legacy begins with these remarkable words and concludes with a promise she kept and fulfilled throughout her life.

As I was writing about a strong ‘woman,’ it was then that I saw in Queen Elizabeth II the type of woman I was referencing. Beyond her British reserve was a quality that touched people. World-over, the general populace was sad at her passing. I was also sad. The queen made the world a better place and served her people with the strength of her bearing, composure, and being. Every day of her reign, she was given a red box, similar to a briefcase, filled with news, communications, and tasks for her to process, which she faithfully executed.

Such a woman smiles at life.