It’s a God-thing

You’ve been shopping for a couple of hours and now you’re heading for home. A friend you haven’t seen in years is walking with her granddaughter by your house. You do a double-take. You call out to her, stop the car and get out of your vehicle. The talk is easy, catching up on each other’s lives is fun and somehow precious. Then she continues on her walk, and you think to yourself, now that was a God-thing.

Why’d you think that?

Since it happened to me this afternoon, I’ll tell you why I thought it. First, the conversation did something for both of us. We’re Christian sisters; we have history from back when we were in our thirties and young mamas; we’ve been through stuff; we were encouraged; and it felt like it was meant to be. She lives in my neighborhood, and now I think we’ll get together more often.

A God-thing is something orchestrated by Him.

This morning I was thinking about how we invite God in to direct our days. Sometimes I forget to give Him my day, and sometimes I remember. When God drops something in my lap, I know He is leading me. If I’m in tune with the Spirit, I will promptly respond accordingly. I may have to make a conscious choice because maybe I don’t feel like it. However, I have never once regretted it when I have responded.

It’s not about us, it’s about Him.

God is in control.

God is in control of our destiny. He leads us in the way He wants us to go. Unfortunately, we don’t always respond appropriately or as He desires us to do. That’s when God revisits the issue again and again until we get the message and do something about it. God has a plan for us, and it is a good plan.

He’s teaching us to trust Him with our life.

When we get off the bus.

I retreat from people at times, especially when I am wounded, discouraged, or weary. I need some space to process what’s going on, so I can deal with it, heal and recover. And that’s okay. The goal is always to be moving forward. But sometimes you have to move back to move forward. You have something to figure out.

The problem when you don’t move forward and start to stall out is that you eventually start to move backward, that is, if you don’t keep pushing forward. But even that’s not hopeless, it’s just harder to get the energy to move forward again. But, you know when you are ready. It is doable and worth it.

God brings things to cheer us up.

Embrace what God brings into your life. Let Him fill you with His love. Reach out and receive it. I didn’t know how to do this for many years. It came when I was in solitude. He touched me in the stillness. God came in, and He refreshed me. Many times it is just the knowledge that He is with me that encourages throughout my day. He brings me a calmness and peace, and He is my power and strength. Like scripture says, He is a strong tower.

Dig deep when you need to.

Keep moving forward.

I’ve learned to welcome Him with my first prayer upon waking. Later, I talk to Him as I read the Word and think many thoughts. I’m blessed with the warmth of His love. (Hallelujah!) These months (and years) have been challenging, and I admit to being stuck periodically. But God is unsticking me and breathing freshness into me. I’ve had to change it up by shaking up my world a little bit, getting out of my rut, making myself move forward, and thinking good thoughts. And it’s working!

Like my friend Alison likes to say: Do the next thing. Then do it.

God bless you, my friend.

Walking The Way of Jesus

I am walking the way of Jesus the best I can. He leads and I follow. He is brightness and light, full love, peace and joy. He illumines my steps. I see my steps more clearly after I’ve taken them. My trust in Him is ever growing. It is a hard journey, but He’s never failed me.

I said that it’s a hard journey. It is that, in many respects. But it is also a good journey, in many respects. Jesus, God, and the Holy Spirit are great companions to have on a journey. The Spirit teaches as I go. I benefit from listening and taking to heart the strength He imparts.

God provides love, direction, and context for the journey. His book has wisdom and truth that fills me with goodness. I am enlightened as I read His Word, and I am encouraged as I embrace His way. He has answers, and I am grateful for them. God is the mastermind behind it all.

Jesus, however, speaks differently though the same. He is the God-human companion that never fails to assist me. When I say “Help me,” He does. Jesus dries my tears when I am hurt. He gives me courage when I am afraid. He lifts me up when I am down. He speaks when I need comfort.

I like the way all three persons of the Godhead show up when I’m going astray. My problem areas aren’t the big bad ones, but I get off the track, nevertheless. Once I see my area of drifting, then I will try to get out of that rut. The Holy Spirit lets me know that something’s not right. Then God’s Word confirms it, more often than not.

God has been showing me some things that need fine tuning. I’m up for that. It’s weird, but I have let a few things get me down and get the better of me. Covid hasn’t helped matters. That’s no way to live.

A question in a lesson book asked, “How might it change your day today if you were to cease looking for human approval and begin seeking only the approval of God?” My answer, I’d be more productive and less defeated. That was a defining moment in my reality. I’m chasing a new reality now, one that’s love-based, which is God-based because God is love.

I’ve decided to look at obstacles differently. Love changes the way I look at things. It makes me braver, I can love people wherever I go. It pushes my shyness aside and opens the doors to a productive life even if it’s just loving people. How? I ask God to fill me with His love, and I go from there.

God loves you. Jesus loves you. The Holy Spirit loves you. It is good to be loved so adequately, profoundly, and tenderly. Some days we feel separated from that love because troubles enter our lives, and we fail to see their purpose. Yet the love is there, sustaining you. You’re abundantly loved.

God loves you. Jesus loves you. The Holy Spirit you. It is good to be loved so adequately, profoundly, and tenderly. Some day

It’s always worth looking for answers as long as we’re looking in the right places where the answers are found. I remember last year I found an answer in the book Codependent No More. I saw aspects of myself in that book. I hadn’t realized that I had codependency traits that controlled part of me. I also realized that part of my happiness was bound in an unhealthy way to others’ happiness or their happiness with me. This was huge.

Keep looking and you’ll keep finding. I can’t wait to tell you about what I’m learning now. I realized another sizeable gap in me, and I couldn’t believe that I had been so dense to never think of it in my spiritual makeover. That story will be in another post.

It’s a great day when your head comes out of the fog to live fully, faithfully, and cheerfully.

Thank you, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, amen.

  • The family picture is of my children and me the first Christmas without their dad. We were sad, and I think it shows. We are at my folks’ house. I had a hard time, but I was well on my way to a new reality of ‘God with me.’
  • God is gracious.