GAY to STRAIGHT: PERRY and BUTTERFIELD

2 BOOKS THAT WILL GRAB YOUR ATTENTION

SOME BOOKS are out of the ordinary. These two are. The authors are women who lived the gay life but now are  Christian, straight, and married with children. Each of their journeys to faith is unique. Both are riveting. A third book about a difficult subject exposes the issue of sexual abuse, its horror, its effects, and its failed treatment in the evangelical community. We Too by Mary E. Demuth is up for next week. One cannot read these books without being changed in some way.

BOOK REVIEW 1

The Secret Thoughts of An Unlikely Convert: An English Professor’s Journey into the Christian Faith by Rosaria Butterfield, PhD. 2012, Crown & Covenant publishers

What a story! One of the most interesting books I’ve read, particularly because of the subject matter. This is a hot topic that doesn’t get much press or validation. Butterfield’s journey to faith is compelling.

A sincere pastor, without judgment or condemnation, speaks life to this woman on the opposite side of the spectrum who has little use for Christianity. He becomes salt and light by authentically engaging in dialogue with this educated, active, professor, Women’s Studies Program Chair, and feminist social activist.

Butterfield’s story, a unique one at that, unfolds her remarkable spiritual awakening. Her life goes from that of a feminist community leader and proactive lesbian to Christian convert to Christian marriage to new role as pastor’s wife, college youth leader, and motherhood.

Her internal strength and clarity of thought become assets as she enters the fray, a fascinating road upon which she travels to discover truth for herself. I applaud her courage in speaking her faith story to those willing to listen.  Her exit from the gay community where she felt safe and wanted is difficult. Her professional area of study is at cross-purposes with her fledgling faith. Butterfield’s path to faith is costly, unsettling, mind boggling, and traumatic. I think she would be quick to say that it’s been worth it. Her life has purpose and meaning that is redemptive and life-giving. Truly, God works in mysterious ways.

BOOK REVIEW 2

Gay Girl, Good God: The Story of Who I Was, and Who God Has Always Been by Jackie Hill Perry, 2018, B & H Books

This book covers it all: Christian social issues, gender and sexuality, dysfunctional family and so forth. Jackie Hill Perry is a thinker, poet, rapper, hip hop artist,and speaker. Well known in her own right, she gets a boost from Nancy Leigh DeMoss Wolgemuth (Lies Women Believe), who writes its foreword.

You get inside the author’s head right off the bat with this one. Perry’s book offers frank talk, understanding, vulnerability, and grace. Authenticity comes in many forms. You will find it here in her book. Perry takes you there–to her unwelcome conception and dysfunctional past, her embracing of a lesbian lover and how that happened, her delight and empowerment within her gay relationships and friendships . . . .  Then comes her startling realization that God is real, terribly real. Just like that, she transitions to follow the call. Thus comes her rocky transformation into the Spirit-led life with its new way of living. It’s not easy, but it’s real.

Perry’s frankness is helpful to the unaware, straight person, who far too easily condemns without insight into the gravity of real life people, circumstances, and situations. Perry’s provocative message includes the difficulty of leaving what and whom you love to follow God’s way and truth. A few key people help her gain life-giving truth.

WITH SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT: Pause and Consider no. 2

MORE THOUGHTS ABOUT LIFE

A COUPLE OF SUNDAYS AGO I went to a Trappist monastery in a neighboring county. I absorbed my first visit to the newly constructed, new-from-old church. My mind sorted while classifying what I was seeing, hearing, and considering. Phrases, tunes, chants, and homily all met my inner being in that quiet place of peace.  The pipe organ under the command of a monk played the old familiar tune to “Fairest Lord Jesus.” My thoughts took a wide berth that day.

A contemplative person likes to contemplate. (duh) That’s me. I contemplate all the time, all day long, even at night. I wish I could turn off the narrative. Well, actually, I do whenever I’m praying, talking, reading or watching a program. Pondering and wondering come naturally to me. Reading is a close second. I think it wonderful to have a mind that eagerly desires to think. You never know what it is going to produce.

CONTEMPLATION

LANGUAGE OF LOVE

WISDOM SPEAK
. Words that affirm, speak the language of love.
. Glances that communicate acceptance, speak the language of community.
. Actions that help others, speak the language of kindness.
. Gifts that enrich relationships, speak the language of connection.

 

GOSPEL IN MINIATURE

THE GOSPEL in one sentence–

“He was delivered over to death for our sins and was raised for our justification.” Romans 4:25

 

LASTING IMPACT

I LOVE a book that leaves me pondering its deeper truths. My mind takes pleasure in thinking through the book’s message. It’s like unwrapping a gift, delighting in it, and then using it according to its intended purpose. Books have the ability to impact me for forever.

 

SAY WHAT?

HOW WE FEEL is important. What we KNOW is important. Which one is MOST important? Feelings can bend. What we know is where we find its true nature. Thought vs Feeling is a go-to exercise in problem solving. Feelings can mislead us. Ask yourself, what is true about this? There you have it.

 

TRUE TRUTH

TRUTH STANDS ALONE. One of God’s standards is truth. When lies proliferate around us and seemingly bury the idea of a one true truth, they still cannot change what is. Truth still stands whether its believed or not–even when its being impugned, mocked and assailed.

Nor do I wish the call of God to go unanswered. When God speaks, listen to Him. When God calls, answer Him. When God convicts, confess His name. When God approaches (in thought or word), bow the knee and worship. God is near, very near, and He knows your name and mine.

OPEN EYES, OPEN HEART

I AM CONVINCED that most people see only what they want to see when it comes to the spiritual. Until. Yes, until. Until they are willing, open, and responsive to the things of God. God calls, impresses, loves, welcomes. One can resist, refuse, deny. Only believe.

 

SPIRITUALLY AWARE

BE PROACTIVE in your private, spiritual life. When the Spirit speaks, heed it. Never discount the spiritual realm. Train your spiritual eye to know God’s Word. Train your spiritual ear to discern God’s direction. Train your spiritual heart to follow God’s truth.

Be encouraged.

Thanks be to God for His wisdom, grace, and truth.