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I Am Grateful for You!

You are a friend of mine and I am so thankful that I know you. That’s the truth. First off, I am thankful that you are a Christian. If you aren’t a Christian, then let me tell you, you want to become one. Trust in the Lord as your Savior, and then you will be one of His children. I don’t know who reads this, but God is your friend, your comforter, and your peace.

God Is With Us

I’m happy right now. God is helping me do the things He gives me to do. They aren’t big things, yet He gives them to me to do, and that makes them okay in His sight. I’m thankful for all the little and big things He sends my way. God is good that way. He surprises us, and He helps us. When we get discouraged, He picks us up. Our life is a journey that only He understands.

He Surprises Me

Lately God’s been taking me down a new path. As I timidly step down the path, He is by my side. He even holds my hand when I need it. He says “trust me.” So I am learning to trust Him more than I used to. He says, “Look for Me,” and I begin to look for Him. I see Him in the things that grow, in the cloudy sky, in the food I eat, in my friends, in the problems I face, and in many other things that garner my attention.

I get in trouble, though. Something is not going right for me, what then? Even though I’m tempted to give up or to take the well worn path to make it turn out okay, I don’t. Why not? God will bring it to pass in His way, and that’s okay with me. Why? again. His way is the best way. I know that is true. I just know it. He has never failed me, though, to others it might seem that He has.

He Keeps On Teaching Me

Of course, my circumstances are different than yours. But God works in all our lives. He is bringing us along to take care of us. To help us. To bring us truth. To guide our steps. To teach us to trust Him. To help us learn His truths. To use us to help our neighbors. To nudge us to pray for those in our lives and beyond where we live. There is so much He wants to teach us. He wants to guide us, redeem us, and help us — and that’s saying a lot. God knows what He is doing (and we do not).

At times we all feel that we aren’t living it quite right. We aren’t as good as we should be. But God says “Trust Me.” I remember when my husband left me for good; I was discouraged. I had tried so hard but it had not been what He was looking for. I didn’t understand, but God did. For three years He gave me the same answer every time I asked Him for answers. He only said, “Trust Me.” I wanted answers to my questions but He was silent. All I would get in answer to my many questions was “Trust Me.”

Then I Got It

Slowly, bit by bit, I was learning to trust Him. He needed to teach me through my trusting Him. That was a major thing to learn. Trusting Him meant that I could and would accept what came my way. I thought I was trusting Him, but I came to see it differently. Trust is something that grows. I trust more than I did a year ago. It’s true. He is pushing me further along. Once you bring understanding or misunderstanding before Him then He knows you are listening to Him. You quit fighting Him and begin to trust Him. It’s wonderful when He has our full attention.

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So Glad, So Happy, So Content; God is Real!

So Delightful…

I’m just back from a glorious visit in California. I went with my three siblings. We had fun; real fun. I’ll tell you what we saw as far as places, then I’ll tell you, who we saw. We left on a Wednesday and returned the following Wednesday. First, we went out to the coast, that is, after we saw my cousin Jeff and his wife, Jo Anne and cousin Jana, her daughter and two granddaughters. Then we were ready for the whirl-wind trip.

We headed toward the coast. We saw three California missions that day (they are worth seeing). Then we enjoyed seeing my cousin, Jerry, and his wife, Kathryn. We enjoyed talking with them (and, of course, eating, as well). My cousin was good to see, and he and his wife were great to talk to. It is interesting how the years have made what we have in common rise to the surface. We were all blessed by the conversation.

Hearst Castle

On we went the next day to see the elephant seals and a bit later, the Hearst Castle. We did the first tour together, and the second tour we split up, one group to see the upper rooms, and the other, to see the extra cottage bedrooms and the kitchen. I was with my sister Juanita (no one else) and we got to talk quite a bit with the tour guide…he was great! It really is amazing to realize how much Randolph Hearst gave to his guests. It’s obvious, he loved it. We had a nice day, too. A bit of rain, and then it would clear a bit. You get the picture. By the way, The Abby at New Clairvaux has the Rocks, which they grouped together for the monestary, that Randolf Hearst purchased and brought to San Francisco long ago.

The Reagan Library

Then we drove down to the Reagan Library. Wow! We sure enjoyed partaking of the many pictures, movies, and writings of the place. Lots of Reagan quotes. It was nice, especially since he was a California governor and later the president during our life times. Side note: My bother went with a few hand-picked history students to meet him, when Reagan was governor. We spent a a great deal of time there, and could have spent more time, but we were out of time! It was well worth it.

Tar Pits

We then drove to Los Angeles. The next morning we went to the La Brea Tar Pits. There we took a tour, which was well worth it. They have brought a lot of dead animals out of the tar pits. It is really quite an adventure to see what they have collected. After all, the animals get stuck in the gooey tar. There was something like 400 skulls of wolves (or something like that). We saw some people working on cleaning animals and other stuff collected from the pits.

The Museum

Then we went to the Museum of Science and Industry. There we saw SO MUCH. We had gone there as children, so it brought back many memories. We learned about the life of the dinosaurs, in some detail. We spent a good deal of time reading the explanations for the exhibits of the various kinds of animals (that’s what I remembered from childhood). We viewed a room full of various kinds of minerals. They were absolutely fantastic. It was so wonderful. I’d recommend it.

Glendora, California

Next, we drove toward Glendora, taking in a mission on the way. We settled in and made ourselves comfortable. The next morning we went to the church of our childhood, what used to be an Independent Brethren church) and visited with my Great Uncle Melvin, who goes there. Later, we ate lunch with my Staudenrause cousins and visited my Grandma Weigold’s house in Glendora and later the graveyard where theirs and our parents, grandparents and etc. are buried. It was quite an adventure seeing my cousins and seeing where the graves of our relatives are in that Cementary.

Chino, California

The next day we visited with my Aunt Thelma and Mary, her daughter, before driving to Chino, where we lived before we moved north. We drove around some before we drove south to San Diego. We wanted to see where we lived in Chino (you can see the bridge but the house is gone), the school where we attended, indeed. Up the hill to see the Chino Boys Republic, and then on to San Diego, where we saw Jana and her family, at least the two boys, her grandson and daughter-in-law. We had a delicious meal on the beach, in one of their favorite restaurants, it was really very yummy. The next day we visited with Jana, she drove us around to see some of the nice places in San Diego. Lastly, we visited Mark’s burial. It was really wonderful to see her and her family. I’m so glad we did. Then we headed up north.

Yosemite

But there was one more thing we wanted to see…and Juanita and I had not seen it before. We went to Yosemite. Yes, you got that right! We drove part way the night before. Then we drove until we got to the top of the park. My goodness, it’s lovely, ,and it even has a few patches of snow. Then we drove down to see the massive rock (s) from the bottom up. Another tourist from Australia had binoculars, which we viewed the rock with. There were at least three people climbing the rock! That was really something to see! Then we drove on home. My sisters stayed a day, then they drove home. That was quite a trip.

My Siblings

Not only was the trip a lovely thing to do and see, the trip with my siblings was particularly nice. The missions were mainly my type of thing, but they went with it. It’s kind of neat, when your siblings care about making everyone happy. It’s like we just agreed to be nice no matter what. It’s not surprising, but yet, it is. I love my siblings, and I’ve always known that. But it is quite special when everyone is on the same page. Thank you, Juanita, Marilyn, and Paul. You made it special in every way, and I’m not kidding.

We should go on another trip sometime. 🙂