You Just Never Know: Defining My Blog

You just never know what’s down the road and around the bend. I had a major break-through this morning for my writing; to be specific, for this blog.

Ever since I first started blogging I’ve struggled with trying to figure it out, just what I am trying to say on my blog that is actually helpful to people, not just within a narrow parameter but for all kinds of people who are in search of love, truth, and spiritual insights. I’ve never been able to define it until this morning and have spent literally hours over years thinking about it. That is why this blog has lacked a permanent face to it.

The truth is, I love to think deeply about life and spiritual things. I have seen myself as some sort of soft-spoken Christ-following messenger, someone passionate about what I’ve learned and am continuing to learn. I’ve also become dis-enamored with religious labels because they keep people trapped in boxes (by keeping some people in, and some people out–they won’t read anything they don’t agree with, and miss out on a lot of good stuff because of it) and keep them from forming a concrete reason to explore the greater spiritual realm that is just waiting to be discovered by the spiritually curious.

There are so many spiritual areas that fascinate me. A life transformed; going deeper with God; the gift of prayer and meditation; struggle and pain and its antidote; God’s pain pill; the writing life and how to get better at what writers do; contemplation and meditation that fills out a spiritual life and brings life to the Christ-follower; tools and practices that help us face life; teaching and giving; loving and learning. . . .  These all competed for primacy as I tried to think up a slogan I could use that was all inclusive. But none seemed to fit the bill. I needed something that could tie it all into one bundle, something that would speak to the journey I have been on for many a decade.

I am finally getting my thoughts in focus. Right now I think that my slogan should characterize these thoughts. And, I think, I have been given a solution that makes me comfortable. Here’s my break-through, “A Contemplative Space: Connecting with God in everyday life.” I think it works because that is part of what I do–and it is my greatest desire to communicate the blessedness of seeking God in this way. It changes your life in a good way.

How I figured it out was by reading the reviews on Amazon about my one published book. Then I jotted down what the reviewers saw as important in what I have to offer. On my own all I could picture was a door opening up into a fully lighted place…because that is how I see it works when we step forward to seek spiritual truth without any limiting factors. The Bible is the guidebook, but God confirms His presence in a multiplicity of ways.

I grabbed a photo from a trip I took with my kids to a lake in Colorado and slapped together a new header for my blog site, which will make-do for the time being. What a relief this is to me. Feeling joy-filled.

Blessings, my friends.

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Ways We Can Get It Right (Going Deeper Part 8)

WAYS WE CAN GET THE SPIRITUAL RIGHT

Going Deeper with God: Lesson 8

A couple of helps are in order. Look at these carefully. Which one is true of you right now? Image 1 or Image 2? You can’t have it both ways. It’s one or the other.

Image 1

Image 2

As Christians, we are born of the Spirit i.e. born again. But on a minute to minute basis we are making choices as to how we will live: in the fleshly side of things or in the spiritual side of things.

Which door are you opening: to the Spirit ←OR→ Flesh? Here is an example that will serve a purpose.

Notice the three compartments: Spirit, Soul, Flesh. A person of faith, who is redeemed (regenerate) will still have minute by minute choices. We may choose to serve our flesh, or we may choose to serve things of the Spirit. We, as Christians, are either opening the door to the Spirit or we are opening the door to the Flesh. The two cannot be both open at the same time.

It is helpful to look at yourself as you go through your days and take stock of where you’re at. Are you opening the door to the spirit or are you opening the door to the flesh? It is fairly easy to evaluate this by noticing your thoughts and actions. If you fail to have alone time with God, it is almost impossible to live with the door open to things of the spirit. That’s why we need reflective, prayerful time with God.

FLESH: self-centered, selfish, mean, controlling, lies, bitter, explosive anger, unkind, unforgiving, prideful, arrogant . . .

SPIRIT: loving, kind, patient, joy, peace, faithful, long-suffering, good, affirming, generous, helpful

Here is a pattern for learning to love God’s way. Love conquers because  love is what God is. All He does comes from out of that love. If we want real and lasting change, once we identify those areas of weakness (our flesh patterns), then we can bring them to God and continually surrender them and our hearts to God. God infuses Himself into our lives when we allow ourselves to openly and honestly do business with Him.

In Real Life (there’s no pretending)

ASK:  Ask God to reveal Himself to you. Ask Him to help you become a new person, to help you change within your heart. Ask Him to help heal, repair, and renew your inner person however He wants to do that. You will do your part by getting alone with God and doing the hard work of listening and then responding.

When we shut the door on something He asks of us, then God becomes less active with us. Just like a counselor can only do so much if the counselee won’t do the hard work, God only works with what He is given. God is a gentleman, I’m serious about this.

SEEK: Seek God with an eagerness. Look for Him. Look in His Word. Seek His truth. Seek, don’t hide. Read, pray, and think about God. Fine tune your spiritual radar for things of God. Let go of all preconceived notions (other than Scriptural). Anticipate a few surprises on the journey.

FIND: Find what God gives you. Embrace His truth. Embrace Him. Find His newness. Let Him clean you up inside. Just let that ugly stuff go. Don’t hold onto it, because it is only hurting you. Find freedom. Find God. Find love. God responds to hearts that seek to find.

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