GAY to STRAIGHT: PERRY and BUTTERFIELD

2 BOOKS THAT WILL GRAB YOUR ATTENTION

SOME BOOKS are out of the ordinary. These two are. The authors are women who lived the gay life but now are  Christian, straight, and married with children. Each of their journeys to faith is unique. Both are riveting. A third book about a difficult subject exposes the issue of sexual abuse, its horror, its effects, and its failed treatment in the evangelical community. We Too by Mary E. Demuth is up for next week. One cannot read these books without being changed in some way.

BOOK REVIEW 1

The Secret Thoughts of An Unlikely Convert: An English Professor’s Journey into the Christian Faith by Rosaria Butterfield, PhD. 2012, Crown & Covenant publishers

What a story! One of the most interesting books I’ve read, particularly because of the subject matter. This is a hot topic that doesn’t get much press or validation. Butterfield’s journey to faith is compelling.

A sincere pastor, without judgment or condemnation, speaks life to this woman on the opposite side of the spectrum who has little use for Christianity. He becomes salt and light by authentically engaging in dialogue with this educated, active, professor, Women’s Studies Program Chair, and feminist social activist.

Butterfield’s story, a unique one at that, unfolds her remarkable spiritual awakening. Her life goes from that of a feminist community leader and proactive lesbian to Christian convert to Christian marriage to new role as pastor’s wife, college youth leader, and motherhood.

Her internal strength and clarity of thought become assets as she enters the fray, a fascinating road upon which she travels to discover truth for herself. I applaud her courage in speaking her faith story to those willing to listen.  Her exit from the gay community where she felt safe and wanted is difficult. Her professional area of study is at cross-purposes with her fledgling faith. Butterfield’s path to faith is costly, unsettling, mind boggling, and traumatic. I think she would be quick to say that it’s been worth it. Her life has purpose and meaning that is redemptive and life-giving. Truly, God works in mysterious ways.

BOOK REVIEW 2

Gay Girl, Good God: The Story of Who I Was, and Who God Has Always Been by Jackie Hill Perry, 2018, B & H Books

This book covers it all: Christian social issues, gender and sexuality, dysfunctional family and so forth. Jackie Hill Perry is a thinker, poet, rapper, hip hop artist,and speaker. Well known in her own right, she gets a boost from Nancy Leigh DeMoss Wolgemuth (Lies Women Believe), who writes its foreword.

You get inside the author’s head right off the bat with this one. Perry’s book offers frank talk, understanding, vulnerability, and grace. Authenticity comes in many forms. You will find it here in her book. Perry takes you there–to her unwelcome conception and dysfunctional past, her embracing of a lesbian lover and how that happened, her delight and empowerment within her gay relationships and friendships . . . .  Then comes her startling realization that God is real, terribly real. Just like that, she transitions to follow the call. Thus comes her rocky transformation into the Spirit-led life with its new way of living. It’s not easy, but it’s real.

Perry’s frankness is helpful to the unaware, straight person, who far too easily condemns without insight into the gravity of real life people, circumstances, and situations. Perry’s provocative message includes the difficulty of leaving what and whom you love to follow God’s way and truth. A few key people help her gain life-giving truth.

3 Book Reviews

GOOD BOOKS!

A GOOD BOOK is a delight to the soul. Here are three books I have read this year. I mentioned the first one earlier, but it bears repeating. The third one was finished this week. Its author, Annette Hubbell, had requested a review from me, and I was happy to do so after reading it. Her book was a little out of the ordinary, but I thoroughly enjoyed it. She takes on the persona of the person she’s writing about (after much research). The other two books were archived in my mother’s books (her books furnished most of my reading material for 2019). They were a joy to read, as well.

Book 1

TRANSCENDS TIME

IN HIS STEPS: What would Jesus do? 

First published in 1896

THE  TIMELESS truths in In His Steps transcend the decades since it was written over a century ago. I guess I have always heard of this book but I knew absolutely nothing about it. “What Would Jesus Do?” WWJD was a popular acronym several years back. But I had no idea that it had historical significance. In this book’s story line that is the predominant question, what would Jesus do?

The challenge is a good one for any person of faith. Could we live what these people seek to do? Is faith strong enough to be lived out in ordinary circumstances? This novel seeks to present the underlying pressure to do just that. Even though this book is outdated, we are still served a large portion of reality. I can’t help but think the world would be a much better place if its people would follow in His steps.

To tell the truth I couldn’t put this book down. My grandmother had given the copy I was reading to my mother in the 1940’s when Mother was a teenager. The book is falling apart. Its paper is like old parchment. It is not surprising to me that it became a classic. Timeless truths hidden in a well-written story oftentimes keep their value. Wonderful.

In His Steps on Amazon  Updated versions also available.

Book 2

DESPAIR TO DELIGHT

THE HIDDEN LIFE: Revelations from a Holy Journey

First published in 2005

Updated version in 2016 – THE HIDDEN LIFE: AWAKENED

ALONE in herself, desperate for understanding and relief, Betty Skinner is adrift and lost in angst and despair. Set on a path of over-achieving and inner isolation, she experiences life events that are destructive to her inner core. She lives for years by sucking it up and relying on her own resources. Her needs are not met and her fears increase.

This story is a painful one, which many can relate to. But her story is one that leads to a divine resolution, restoration, and improbable but life-giving rejuvenation. Betty finds God. She clings to God. Silence in nature befriends her. Scripture verses are enlivened. Poetry is written. Prayer is soul-conversation with her Forever Friend. She becomes a listener, which leads to personal healing and life-long learning.

I loved Betty Skinner’s story as one loves something precious to you. Even though I have never met her, I know we are kindred spirits. I wish I could meet her. We have story in common. How beautiful it is to know and love that which touches the heart of God. My mother had a hardback copy of “The Hidden Life” in her books. I recently found it as I went through my mother’s things after her passing. Betty’s story is a testament to God’s healing grace. He speaks and lives are transformed.

I found Betty Skinner online at the authors’ www site. I watched some of her recent videos (at age 104, no less!). Thank you to Kitty Crenshaw and Catherine Snapp, Phd, for sharing this encouraging story. Blessings.

The Hidden Life on Amazon

The Hidden Life: Awakened on Amazon

Betty’s blog, writings, photos on The Hidden Life Awakened

Book 3

WELL DONE

ETERNITY THROUGH THE REARVIEW MIRROR: How simple faith changes everything–Seventeen Extraordinary Lives

Published in January 2019

WELL DONE, Annette Hubbell. Well done, people of note. Well done, faithful servants to His dear cause. Hubbell tells seventeen stories of people’s life journeys that make a difference and leave a lasting impact. To take us there, she unveils their lives by using first-person narrative to tell their stories. These past heroes were overcomers in their own right. These individuals offered their lives in some remarkable way–and we can say the world is better off because of them.

One soon sees that these individuals are not a common mix of people. Their ordinary turned extraordinary lives were realized through events strewn with a greater purpose beyond the temporal state of daily existence. Courage, fortitude, vision, obedience, faithfulness, determined purpose, and personal strength defined each one’s successes. All were extra notable by how their lives intersected with God’s ability to multiply His grace in response to the human offering of self. The hard work ahead for each person was inspired and enabled by their relationship to God. Faith practically shouts in their lives.

Kudos to Annette Hubbell for taking on a daunting task to bring to life the character that drives action despite human frailty, disappointment, imprisonment, obstacles, and the ‘whatevers’ that make life a difficult row to hoe. They are examples to us all. Greatness need not be silenced by limitations. Obstacles are part of the journey. I eagerly await the author’s next book, should she chronicle snapshots of brilliance in unfolding another set of historical personalities for the perusal of her readers.

Eternity Through the Rearview Mirror on Amazon

HAPPY READING!