WE MAY have MISSED THE BOAT: A Spiritual Intervention (Part 4 of 25)

There were things in the Christian life that seemed strange to me. Later on I would come to understand what they meant. It was confusing and contrary to what I idealistically believed to be the true measure of Christian people.

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There were some people who had been a part of the church who were falling away or in a state of rebellion. Why couldn’t they sustain their faith? Looking back, I realize that some of it wasn’t just because of sinful behavior, some of these people or their behaviors were not understood very well at all. There was more to it than was obvious. People were seen as either inside the camp or outside the camp. There was little gray area or room to debate areas of struggle. The many issues of questionable or wrong behaviors were lumped together as “sinful” and the solution was to repent and get right with God. But we failed to help the person get their life together or deal with their stuff. But it was the expectation for participating in Christian community.

Sin would need to be confessed and then a new beginning could be had. After the prodigal’s return, when a person got right with God, it was expected that a return to the church and a following of God’s ways as set forth by the church and based on biblical principles would yield a path to victory and righteous living. It was a logical conclusion. That was the expectation and the mindset. For some it did work this way.  This pattern for living the faithful life was formed with good intentions and quite valuable for addressing truth as it relates to scripture, I don’t knock it. But it wasn’t enough, it fell short. It was missing the most important key principle necessary for living a fulfilling and God-centered life.

Because, in my opinion, it has one major flaw.

Better said, it has one missing component. Within this “sin>repent>rededicate>obedience>serve God” cycle, there is a major lack in its specific parameters for living a victorious Christian life. Some have stumbled upon it like I did, others have found it as they draw closer and closer to the Source. They find God to be the healer and helper, their joy and their deliverer. But many others continue on as they have been taught, equating salvation, prayer, bible reading, bible study, and obedience as the only parts that make up the whole.

Yet, there was that glaring defect. One only had to look around to notice a serious conundrum.

The formula didn’t work for everyone.

There were many who could not function well within the church’s religious parameters. They would eventually abandon their faith. It failed to address those troublesome gray areas. In particular, it didn’t help those who were wounded by life or who were struggling with areas of bondage, people who needed something more than the church was offering.

It is this flaw that has tripped up many a person. It has kept them from returning to the “fold,” and has convinced people that they may never measure up or be good enough to enter fully into the Christian community unless they pretend the part. The equation of spirituality “being spiritual” with a list of specific spiritual behaviors as an end in itself, a performance-based Christian perception, is to miss the greater reason for living the spiritual life.

The motivation and emphasis is wrong and falls short.

Contrary to what most of us have been taught, Christianity is not limited to salvation, obedience. service; prayer, bible reading, and bible study. There is something much more to it than those foundational building blocks even though they are good in themselves. Christianity has a defining key component that makes all the difference and gives the impetus for living a Christian life that is genuine, one with victory and power in its outworking in a satisfying, refreshing, and real way.

What we missed, and what has made all the difference to those whom have found it, is this:

Christianity is about a relationship.

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THE OLD APPROACH ISN’T WORKING: A Spiritual Intervention (Part 3 of 25))

I am a free person today. It hasn’t always been this way. Life used to be confusing and less fulfilling. Through a soul-changing process over time, God brought me to a place of freedom and joy. It has changed my life and my perspectives. My point of view has altered on what it is to be a Christian whose life is the sweet aroma of Christ to the world and to one’s own small sphere of human contacts.

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This has everything to do with embracing the Christ of the Cross and His embracing back. After experiencing my spiritual transformation from one based on duty and performance to one based on love and God’s goodness, I was able to look back and see some parallels from my choices and the way God used them for the better in my life with the eventual healing of pockets of hidden pain within me, those areas which once blinded me to the true condition of my inner self.

Painful emotions were something I experienced during my adult life.  Fortunately, my childhood was happy and emotional pain was not part of my experiences. The pain was not from my religious or familial upbringing or anything related to spiritual elements. Like many raised in the faith community, my home life was practically without blemish. It was a good home. I had loving parents who lived the walk, were true and consistent.

I was unaware of some things, though. As a devoted Christian and consistent churchgoer, and as an active participant in the on-going liveliness found in the faith-based community, my sheltered existence and love for things of God contributed to a blind-spot in my understanding regarding a specific area of human struggle within this same community.

Much of my religious instruction was shaped around two fundamental important beliefs. These provided the framework for living our Christian lives. First and most important, salvation of a soul comes through saving faith in Jesus Christ. Second, the Christian walk is to be lived as a holy life, separate from the ways of the world and its worldly attachments. Ours was to be a life lived in obedience to God as outlined in the scriptural mandates set forth in the Holy Word.

This was a conservative approach to Christianity. My beliefs were shaped and formed with close adherence to certain standards of action and behavior. This structure didn’t have much bend or wiggle room. I find no fault with its teaching. I don’t resent it at all. In fact, I appreciate the way I was raised. The church’s beliefs were not where its teachings and practice fell short. They were not the issue.

It was something more complex, more fundamentally disruptive in my inner person. It was less easy to see because of my spiritual upbringing. I was missing some key components in my life. And, I had some misconceptions about living the Christian life.  Being circumspect and obedient, did not help me deal with the trauma that came into my life. It didn’t help me figure out what to do with the pain. But what it did do for me, it kept me close to Father God, and it kept me seeking Him for answers.

I eventually found some answers.

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