Not the Boss of Me

Really, now. . . not quite so fast.

–T’s in Our Lives–

In our spiritual lives we come to many T’s where we make choices. Some choices cost us and draw us in directions others don’t understand, agree with, or approve. Scripture validates that the choice for God is always the best choice.

A choice for God is a choice for what God loves, which is a choice to the good God is doing. God loves the world. He loves obedience. He loves the heart that seeks Him. He loves repentance. The humble, worshipful person is pleasing to the Lord.

“This is what the LORD says: ‘Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls.‘” Good so far, right? Then comes this. “But you said, ‘We will not walk in it.'”*

What a contrast. What the Lord says versus how the people respond. When we are at a crossroads in our lives, do we ask, “Where is the good way? Am I walking in the good way?” We will “find rest for our souls,” when we do walk in the good way. Again, God is always the best choice.

This sounds like a no brainer. But it is not easy should our focus stray from following God’s way.

The choice to follow God is one of consequence. No longer are we our own boss. Early in Jesus’ ministry He said to a couple fishermen, “Come follow me and I will make you fishers of men.” What was remarkable, they did come, they did follow, and they did become fishers of men.

Jonah made a choice, too. He was angry at the spiritual directive, so he chose to turn away from God, to continue hating the ungodly–the undeserving of God’s mercy (according to his way of thinking), without compassion for the godless people of Nineveh. But God had a plan, and God loved the people in Ninevah. God offered them a chance to repent and turn from their wicked ways. Jonah was the messenger, though an unwilling one.

“On the day Jonah entered the city, he shouted to the crowds: ‘Forty days from now Nineveh will be destroyed!'”(Jonah 3:4)

From the king down, the people of Nineveh repented and turned to God, while Jonah sulked and waited for their demise with an unrepentant heart. He was a grudging follower pressed into service. After the fact, He was still nursing a grudge toward God. I don’t know if Jonah came to his senses, but I do know God used Jonah in spite of himself. In the New Testament there is a look back on that event. “The men of Nineveh will rise up at the judgment with this generation and condemn it, for they repented at the preaching of Jonah, and behold, something greater than Jonah is here.”**

[I read through the book of Jonah last week. Just wow. I’d like societies around the world to repent like the people of Nineveh did. Here’s a sobering thought. Would you do what God said if he told you to go to a godless country and tell them to repent?]

We can be like the fishermen, or we can be like Jonah, or we can be like the Ninevites. We come to T’s in the road when faced with a big decision. These decisions decide the direction we will take for our next steps. Like the pilgrims of last week it can be a major undertaking–think missionary– missions project– major endeavor–an ordinary thing–like how to support your friend or family–or dealing with your self-issues. No matter what it is, the choice that employs a servant’s heart and acts in obedience to God is the one that is pleasing to our Lord.

How we get this thing right is by consistently doing five things.

  1. Pray. Pray through all aspects of it.
  2. Wait. Wait until God shows you the right way.
  3. Trust. Trust God to supply what you need.
  4. Go. Go with God. Hard or easy, keep focused on God.
  5. Praise. Praise God for who He is, what He is doing, and for the journey

God completes what He starts. The wait is a time of active praying, seeking, and learning. The wait is not twiddling your thumbs and doing nothing. Choose the good way and walk in it. “But my God shall supply all your need, according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus.”***

Thank you, Father, for supplying all I need, according to Your riches in glory by Christ Jesus.

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*(Jeremiah 6:16) **(Matthew 12:41) ***(Philippians 4:19)

Photo by Rosie Steggles, Unsplash

Book Talk with Lisa Deam

THIS WEEK Lisa Deam’s new book, 3000 Miles to Jesus was launched. I asked her a few questions about this book. I wondered why she wrote it. It’s not your average book. Her answers lay the groundwork for reading about spiritual pilgrimages.

1. What is a spiritual pilgrimage?

A spiritual pilgrimage is a journey we take in our life of faith, for
example through prayer or following God’s ways in our life. We may not
always be able to take a physical pilgrimage (hello, pandemic), but we
can still walk with God every day.

2. Why did you write this book?

When I began reading about pilgrims’ journeys in the Middle Ages, I was
reminded of several Scripture passages about pilgrimage. The book of
Hebrews, for example, says that God’s people are travelers who are on
their way to a “better country” (Heb. 11:13-16). I wrote 3000 Miles to
Jesus to help us better understand our pilgrim identity and to encourage
us on our walk of faith.

3. How does the subject apply to your life?

I find it very meaningful to think about my life as a pilgrimage, a
sacred journey. It helps me remember that God has prepared a place for
me, and that every day I take steps that bring me closer to my forever
home. When I’m feeling discouraged or lost, I try to pause and refocus
on this heavenly destination. My life isn’t aimless. Despite all my
mistakes, I know I’m walking with God on the path he’s set out for me.

4. What prepared you to write this book?

To write 3000 Miles to Jesus, I spent a lot of time reading the travel
accounts of medieval pilgrims. I wanted their experiences and voices to
shape the book, because they’re wonderful examples of faith and
perseverance. There are so many great pilgrims’ stories that I could
have included hundreds more in the book!

5. What do you hope will be the readers take-away?

I want readers to come away encouraged that even though our journey of
faith is sometimes difficult, we have so many reasons to be hopeful. We
know where we’re headed in life, and we never walk our road alone. We
travel with one another, with our ancestors in the faith, and above all
with God. God is waiting for us at the end of life’s road and walks with
us the entire way.

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THANKS: A hearty thank you to Lisa Deam for sharing this information with us. I truly appreciate her helpfulness and her message. I am including a short bio and links to her sites, and where you can purchase her book.

Lisa Deam, Author

BIO: Lisa Deam is an historian and an award-winning writer in Christian spiritual formation. She’s the author of 3000 Miles to Jesus: Pilgrimage as a Way of Life for Spiritual Seekers (Broadleaf 2021). Lisa lives in the Charlotte, North Carolina area.

I encourage you to treat yourself to something different that’s out of the ordinary, like this book. You might even take yourself to Lisa’s blog site,The Contemplative Writer. I’m a contemplative writer so I now follow her on social media and receive her posts in my email inbox.

SITE LINKS:
www.lisadeam.com
www.thecontemplativewriter.com

BOOK LINKS:
Broadleaf Books:
https://www.broadleafbooks.com/store/productgroup/1951/3000-Miles-to-Jesus

Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/3000-Miles-Jesus-Lisa-Deam/dp/1506461638/ref=sr_1_2?crid=1AWCUN7QP8B0I&dchild=1&keywords=3000+miles+to+jesus&qid=1607091736&s=books&sprefix=3000+miles+to+jesus%2Caps%2C161&sr=1-2

goodreads:

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/55182403-3000-miles-to-jesus

My Book Review of 3000 Miles to Jesus is here. When you click on the title in the review, it will take you to the book on Amazon.